How to Create a “Fetching” Picture and Bio July 28, 2024 – Posted in: Dating Site Advice – Tags: , ,

Before I posted anything, I collected a series of pictures. That is the very first thing a man sees when they are on the dating site. Women look at the same thing.  Collect a bunch of recent pictures in various settings.
Dressed up in your best (shows you like to attend dress up events once in a while)
At a restaurant with friends. (You’re a fun person.)
Casual (maybe cute jeans, new casual dress, or ready to go to the gym)
With your pet if you have one.
Use different views. (side view, front on, close up, far away, something active like hiking or biking, playing with the dog or grandchildren, etc.)
I like to use different backgrounds. Restaurant, backyard, beach, car, golf course, special event, walking the dog in a pretty place, etc. It helps make you look interesting.
Now that you have several saved in your photos, pick only the best. You want to look like the best version of yourself. My best advice is to keep it current. Don’t put up something of when you were 25.

Now Let’s Create Your Bio
Each site is different but here are the basics.
Let’s fill this in…
Work Status_____________________________
Education Level________________________
Marital Status________________
City where you live____________________
Eye color____________________
Height______________________________
Body shape_________________________
Ethnicity_________________________

Think about your day and what you like to do. Highlight what might be more like you.
Plan meals/cooking
Walk the dog
Neighborhood walks
Volunteering somewhere at_______________
Book club
Church club
Committees ________________________
Work out at the gym
Help with grandchildren
Travel…latest where___________________
Take a class
Watch reality tv…what_____________
Now add your own touch to this list.
1.______________________
2. ____________________________
3.______________________________

Most dating sites will ask what you want in a man or what is the ideal man for you is like. Set aside some time and think about this one. You can go to a free site like match.com and see what the men write. It should be more than a sentence or two. This is about what you want so put it all out there.