Building Confidence for Dating After 60 June 9, 2025 – Posted in: Games

Before After Ladies, this is one of the hardest areas to overcome. Dating again after many years of being married or in a significant other relationship can be rather frightening. Regardless of your situation, getting back out there can be a challenging task. You may think you don’t need a new man in your life, but (trust me) it is so much more fun with the right companion. Let’s work on some outside confidence builders.…

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Where to Meet New People/Men May 6, 2025 – Posted in: Dating Site Advice, Games

Where to Meet New People/Men The measure of intelligence is the ability to change. __Albert Einstein I love quotes that hit home and make me think. Ladies, we are all intelligent, wonderful, beautiful women. When we’ve been hit with a life trauma, we sometimes start second-guessing our judgments—time for change. Take control of your decisions; make new friends, engage in new activities, and work on yourself, whatever that might look like. The question is HOW now…

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Know What You Want in a Man April 15, 2025 – Posted in: Games

Know What You Want in a Man So….. you’re newly single and rather lonely and would love to go out with a nice man. You might be on a dating site or perhaps joined a singles pickleball group in your area. It doesn’t matter. You want to be taken out. Here are some things to consider. Do I want a friend in a new guy? Am I looking for a guy with money? Do I…

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Worst Date Ever Game January 29, 2025 – Posted in: Games

After you have poured your guests some wine/drink of choice, pass out the napkins. It makes the game a bit funnier if you have different napkin sayings. Have your ladies silently read their napkin and think of the worst date they have had. Go around the room. Have the ladies read their napkin and share about their worst date ever. When everyone has had a chance to talk, have a consensus about who had the…

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How to Exit a Long Term Relationship January 5, 2025 – Posted in: Relationship Dating Advice

There is also another term you need to know besides ghosting and that is gaslighting. I figured out ghosting all on my own because it just made sense. Gaslighting I had to look up. In simple terms it puts blame on the other person. It usually happens in an extended relationship, but I have found examples in the dating world. This happened to me. Made a plan to meet a new gentleman at the neighborhood…

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Buyer Beware August 17, 2024 – Posted in: Red Flags, Relationship Dating Advice

Isn’t that what friends tell you when something looks too good to be true? This blog post is about just that. I have stories to tell you. Some believable; some not. I have run across several women that I’ve interviewed who have been sucked in and taken for several thousand dollars. Please read about my experiences and don’t let yourself get duped! Here’s Maurice. I found him on a different website than the others. Plenty…

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Get Acquainted Game July 28, 2024 – Posted in: Relationship Dating Advice

This game will get your invitees making new friends and developing new interests. 1. Buy at least two packs of different sayings on the napkins. 2. Hand them out randomly so everyone has one napkin. 3. Time them for two/or so minutes to find someone with the same napkin as theirs. 4. Introduce each other and find interesting facts that the group might want to know about each person. 5. Call time up and go…

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How to Nicely Tell the Gentleman No – Posted in: Relationship Dating Advice

I realize we are now in the digital age of communication. I’ve given you a rundown of some of the dating sites that are out there. This involves digital communication. My personal philosophy is to never do to a gentleman what I would not want done to me. Example, There’s ghosting. That means someone is texting/emailing/messaging you and you don’t like him so you just don’t respond. That’s OK if you have only exchanged comments…

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Dating Sites…..What’s a Girl to Do – Posted in: Dating Site Advice

Before I get started with my critique of dating sites, here’s my piece of advice. Some of the best guys (dreamy, talkative, funny, etc.) ever ask you for money or an Apple gift card picture this; a fat, hairy guy living in his mother’s basement dressed in dirty boxer shorts. Absolutely no one should ask you for any kind of money or things!! There are scams out there. You are empowered with this knowledge! Once…

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How to Create a “Fetching” Picture and Bio – Posted in: Dating Site Advice

Before I posted anything, I collected a series of pictures. That is the very first thing a man sees when they are on the dating site. Women look at the same thing. Collect a bunch of recent pictures in various settings. Dressed up in your best (shows you like to attend dress up events once in a while) At a restaurant with friends. (You’re a fun person.) Casual (maybe cute jeans, new casual dress, or…